CVMA: More Than Just Staying Current

 

Part B: More Than Just Staying Current

My last post was about annual dues and what happens when members fall off the books.

This is really Part B of that conversation.

Over the years, I've told more than a few members the same thing: if life gets busy, at least pay your dues and make it to one qualifying event each year. That's all the bylaws require to remain an active member. You don't even have to ride in—just own a legal motorcycle and stay connected.

There's absolutely nothing wrong with that.

In fact, I know we have a handful of members who do exactly that. They aren't hurting anyone, and they're operating completely within the rules.

My perspective has simply changed.

What I really want to know is who those people are.

Not so I can criticize them. Not so I can pressure them into doing more. Just so I know they're okay.

If I know you've intentionally stepped back because life has taken you in a different direction, I won't be calling for welfare checks because you missed another meeting. I won't be texting to ask where you've been. I won't keep trying to convince you to come to every ride.

I'll respect that.

Where I struggle is understanding why someone wants to remain a member if they no longer have any real interest in participating.

Is it the friendships?

The mission?

The opportunity to help veterans?

Or is it simply about wearing the soft colors and being recognized as a member?

Maybe that's enough for some people. Personally, I don't really understand it.

For me, the patch has never been about recognition. It's about belonging to an organization whose mission I believe in and whose members I've come to consider family.

Now, before anyone thinks I'm preaching...

I'm not as "all in" as I once was.

I still ride more than most. I probably own enough CVMA gear to outfit a small platoon. But life has changed.

My wife and I love to travel to the Carribean and elsewhere via a plane, not on 2 wheels.

I still work full-time.

We're building our dream home.

Family always comes first.

Like everyone else, I've got a lot on my plate.

The CVMA isn't my entire life anymore—and honestly, it shouldn't be.

But it is still an important part of my life.

I'm proud to wear this patch.

I'm proud of what this Association stands for.

I'm proud of the people I've met, the veterans we've helped, the miles we've ridden together, and the friendships that have been built over the years.

I don't see that ever changing.

Everyone has to find the balance that works for them. There is no requirement that says you have to attend every meeting, every ride, or every event.

But I do think every member should occasionally ask themselves one simple question:

"Am I still here because I believe in the mission... or am I just maintaining a membership?"

The answer is different for everyone.

For me, as long as I'm able, I'll continue wearing the patch with pride—not because I have to, but because I still want to.